Mom can t ask for a leave! The female star s family affairs are endless, and the bitterness of mothers is revealed. 6 principles of family distribution can make mothers not worry

"Mom" is a job that cannot be asked for fake ones! Many novice mothers start to have an inrestible life after the child is born, and they spend time in childbirth and cleaning every day. In addition, the irregular sleep of newborns often causes mothers to sleep in a state of chaos. "Never sleep" is the sleepiness of many novice mothers. Taiwanese actress Tao Manman is a 2-year-old mother and often shares her family life on her face. Recently (17th) she posted a message to share her child's mood, saying that the family affairs have not stopped for a day and she is really tired. The post caused many mothers to share the same vein.

2 Mother Tao Manman was moved: When my mother couldn't ask for a leave!

Mother couldn't ask for a leave. Tao Manman felt that she was really tired at the moment. She revealed that she had to wash a pile of clothes like a mountain on the first day after the holiday, "I call it the laundry floor, the laundry floor, and the laundry that I fear the most."

In addition to handling clothes, mothers have to do too much, such as picking up children, cooking, working, and taking care of children. Tao Manman said that she often comes from picking up children home until she forgot to go to the bathroom, and only "thinks of herself" when the child is asleep. It made her feel moved: Mom can’t ask for leave, and the family affairs have never stopped for a day, so it’s really hard to be tired and don’t have a dishwasher!

In addition to suffering from family affairs and land, Tao Manman also felt "a pre-symptom of both people", which made her mood depressed every month. She smiled and said that Mr. She was only a little nervous every month.

Family affairs are inexhaustible. Mothers share the bitterness of childbirth.

Tao Manman's post has caused many mothers to share the bitterness of being a mother. "It's really a lot of things to do. First, it's a family matter. Mothers always think of themselves in the end." "Many people still think that mothers are free at home and there's nothing to do." "What a feeling! Infinite wheel reincarnation is really tiring (especial teammates are not at all)", "Mom is really tiring! No vacations …", "Dishwasher packing will give you more time", "When women are uncomfortable, men should learn the most The one is “ "The eyes should be good"; when a woman is busy, a man will burn the fire in his heart while sitting and sliding his cell phone", "Mom really has endless housework, and she will never know what she is busy with, and then one day will pass! Only in the middle of the night can she have her own time, and the mother stays up not at night, but freedom", "Three machines to save marriage, dishwasher, floor sweeper, drum washing. You can save a lot of time if you buy them all."

6 principles for mastering family distribution. Let mothers not be ashamed of the world. Although they are full of joy and challenges, when mothers need to take care of their children's physical needs and at the same time, they have to deal with their family affairs. The long-term "family affairs and landlords" will make mothers exhausted. Here are 6 suggestions on how to better handle family affairs so that mothers can do daily routines more efficiently.

1. Develop a mother's schedule: Develop a daily or weekly schedule, including homework, childcare time and self-care time, which can help mothers handle their homework in an organized manner, and also allow fathers to get started quickly and help their homework.

2. List the priority order of the incident: After listing the priority order of the incident, the mother can ensure that the most important things are handled first, including the baby's needs, food preparation, laundry and cleaning, and other secondary things will be done before she has time.

3.Divide work with family affairs and family: Sharing family work with "team friends" or other family members can reduce the burden of novice mothers and make family work easier.

4. Help home appliances to simplify homework process: Adding home appliances can save time and simplify homework. The commonly seen "three-machine" home appliances are dishwashers, floor sweepers, and drum-type washing and drying, which helps reduce the pressure and time of doing homework, so that mothers can better respond to childcare and homework.

5.Don't do all the homework at once: Please break down your daily homework tasks and only handle a small part at a time, instead of trying to handle everything at once, as it will make your mother do the housework to a collapse.

6.Don't ignore your needs: In addition to taking care of your children and doing a good job, mothers should not forget to take good care of themselves. Please give yourself time to relax and do what they like, such as exercise, meditation, reading, and chasing, so as not to develop postpartum depression.

Please remember that being a mother is big and beautiful! But in addition to being a mother, mother is also a person, and also has the right to care about her own psychological needs and happiness. Mothers must be happy to have a harmonious family atmosphere. Please pay attention to yourself and be kind to yourself, achieve a balance between nurturing, being a family, and self-care, and accompanying the baby to grow up happily.