Speaking of Taiwan's Shenzhen-based program host Yu Meiren, we have to mention her ups and downs. Before entering the acting circle, Yu Meiren was a training teacher and taught in the same training class as the English training queen Xu Wei. Lat...
Speaking of Taiwan's Shenzhen-based program host Yu Meiren, we have to mention her ups and downs. Before entering the acting circle, Yu Meiren was a training teacher and taught in the same training class as the English training queen Xu Wei. Later, he became a master of selling books through his exquisite writings, and was poached into the military performance circle because of his clear speech, and became a host of Taiwan's home.
Yu Meiren, who is radiating and experiencing popularity in her career, has not been so smooth in her private life. She has been married to her ex-husband Wang Weiren for 16 years. The marriage changed in 2013. The news was hyped in major news stations. Both families accused domestic violence, called each other, asked for protection orders, and robbed children... Various plots such as eight-point files are staged every day in TVs of Taiwanese people all over the world. It was not until September 25, 2013 that the divorce agreement was signed by the beauty and Wang Weilun, which ended the well-known divorce drama.
Yu Meiren: After the marriage change, Yu Meiren has re-examined her life. She found that one of the reasons for the rift in marriage may be because her "control desire" is too strong. Yu Meiren once shared a book that she was depressed due to emotional depression after divorce and developed related physiological symptoms such as insomnia and palpitations, so she went to the psychiatric department. The doctor listened to the beauty's story, pointing to the beauty's pursuit of fullness, vigorousness, and rhythmic personality traits, but if someone does not follow her method, he will feel very uncomfortable. "If these characteristics are gone, we call them "forced personality."A psychiatrist's conversation made Yu Meiren suddenly realize. He remembered that once he went out to eat with his ex-husband, and both of them ordered beef noodles. He instructed his husband to change it into fried rice. "All one beef noodles are not delicious, we can also have fried rice to eat." In fact, it is not just that with his ex-husband. After getting divorced, many friends told Yu Meiren that it was difficult to get along with Yu Meiren since before. The separation from her ex-husband made Yu Mei again recognize herself in the eyes of others, and also made her learn softer, and forced herself to travel more. In a tight life, she still had to find time to slow down her steps.
When interviewed by the media this year, Yu Meiren revealed that she would never get married again. After the divorce, Yu Meiren also wanted to find someone to rely on, but as time went by, Yu Meiren's ideas gradually changed. She thought she had spent a lot of effort to get rid of her. Now she lives a comfortable life and no longer wants to get married again.
What should I do if I am old and demented? Yu Meiren: "I entered the institution myself!"After divorce, the judge sentenced Yu Meiren and her ex-husband's son to her ex-husband, and her daughter followed Yu Meiren. However, about two years ago, the son moved back to live with Yu Meiren. This was a special reason. Yu Meiren's son Max suffered from the rare disease "atypical iridescent autoimmune system attack", which led to his eyes almost blind. In order to save his son's vision, Yu Meiren flew to the United States and Japan to ask friends everywhere for help. Finally, relying on moxibustion and taking medicine and other methods, the son's eyes finally reacted to the light source. It is estimated that Yu Meiren spent more than tens of millions of yuan per month to cure her son. Fortunately, her son's condition improved and she also went abroad to read a book a year ago.
For caring for a woman, Yu Meiren can be said to be as good as possible, but in the contrary, she does not expect her. Yu Meiren once shared her thoughts on long-term care in the program, and believed that the concept of "raising and preventing old age" was completely unreasonable, because cultivating a child from childhood is to enable him to have a better life in the future. "So if I want to live with his most refined 10 years in the last 10 years, what does this mean?"
Then if I am old and demented and need someone to take care of him, what is Yu Meiren's idea? She answered without any consideration: "I must enter the care organization myself!" Yu Meiren said with emotion that many parents think that women are responsible for caring for their parents until their old age, and more people put the nursing home and abandoned the upper-class numbers. But they didn't realize that the daughter was not a professional caregiver. How many elderly people were injured if their children were not caring for them? Therefore, it is better to let professional institutions take care of them. Children can be more happy and the best answer for parents.
Yu Meiren also calls on all parents to stop extorting children, because there is no filial piety of love, it is just a shackle. We should all find ways to make each other more free.
