When the child grows up, he no longer always sticks to you and says frankly. When he enters puberty, he is like taking fried medicine. If he doesn’t move, he will speak poorly to you, and he feels so upset. A mother read out the letter from her son...
When the child grows up, he no longer always sticks to you and says frankly. When he enters puberty, he is like taking fried medicine. If he doesn’t move, he will speak poorly to you, and he feels so upset. A mother read out the letter from her son seven years ago, and was full of gratitude and love. For now, the huge gap has made many mothers "feel sad"!
There is a mother in Japan who is in a rebellious period and is injured by her son's words one morning, but after she opened a letter written by her son seven years ago, she was filled with hot eyes. This is the feeling that many mothers have. They always think of the little and affectionate child. When they grow up, they seem to be getting more and more distant from themselves...
{However, maybe it was because the child just woke up and was not tired, and when she called him, she said angryly: "I'm not tired, why do you want to eat it? Don't force me to eat it."When she heard my son's words, the mother felt that she was not only not grateful, but was also rejected by the child. Unfortunately, she continued to organize her storage room the day before, and then accidentally saw a letter written to her by her son seven years ago. This letter made her feel so attached to her child when she was a child. This is what I wrote in the letter:
to mom, thank you for playing with me all the time, I love you forever. Let's play together again, please take me out again, I really like it. I have always been very grateful to you, thank you for always playing with me.
Looking at the letter written by her son in a pen, there were many heart-shaped markers at the end and cute pictures on the back. My mother said, "When I think of my son writing thank you and I love you over and over again, my eyes are about to come out of my eyes." Seven years later, the child entered the rebellious period, and talking to him seemed to easily make him feel unhappy. Compared with the letters from these seven years ago, it really makes people feel moved. The saying "I love you forever" may not be heard again.
After reading this post, many of the netizens who are also mothers responded, and one mentioned that she could not bear to lose her mind because her child was also in a rebellious period. A mother mentioned: "I think I should collect the small papers that my child has given me now and prepare them. When he enters puberty, he can come and read them to cure my grief."
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Mom mentioned that she wanted to put this letter in a photo frame and show it where her son could see it, but she thought the child would say some criticism, so she didn't want to make the letter less cute. But she put the letter where only she knew, and when her son showed rebelliousness, she would take it out and take it and try to endure it. Looking at the replies of many netizens, we can know that many mothers are in the growth stage of their children and have felt this intense loss. The little child who is always next to you has a height storm and is becoming increasingly impatient with you.
Children enter puberty and begin to seek self-identity and independence. In the face of children's rebellious behavior, parents must remain calm and rational. When dealing with conflicts, do not let the emotions control their reactions. They must ensure rational communication to avoid conflicts and upgrades. At the same time, they also give children a good demonstration and teach them how to face conflicts. Just like this Japanese mother, she comforts herself by reading the children's childhood books and calms her lost mood and anger.
